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13 essential Steps For your Child’s Recovery from Autism
It is very natural for all parents to go through a ‘difficult period’ initially once they come to know about their child ‘s autism issue. My advise would be’ please don’t despair’ even if your pediatrician has taken away every bit of hope of your child’s recovery from autism. I have seen plenty of cases recovering or becoming quite significantly better after early behavior and Homeopathic intervention. You can believe me because I have huge experience in dealing with Autism. My Clinic deals with nearly 3-5 new cases of autism every day and a follow-up of at least dozen Autism cases every day.
Autism Intervention -Earlier the Better
Start early. Once the diagnosis is done, it is very essential to come to terms with the diagnosis as fast as possible. I have seen that most of the parents struggle with the diagnosis for months or years together, which is extremely harmful for the child. Early intervention has a very important role in the recovery of the child from autism.
Making sure of the Autism Diagnosis
In a very young child, lets say between 18- 24 months, the diagnosis is difficult and it becomes all the more difficult if the child has mild problem. Taking the child to your Family doctor or a pediatrician can at times delay the diagnosis as some of them might be not clinically trained to identify Autism Spectrum Disorder ( I could be wrong here , as the clinical training differs from country to country and also the experience and the awareness has a strong bearing on the knowledge of the Pediatrician.). A Neuro developmental specialist is the right person for diagnosis. One diagnostic sign that I have always found very useful in diagnosing Autism Early is how the child reacts to his name being called out. Especially, when a stranger is calling it out. If out of ten, the child is responding less than 7 -8 times when a stranger calls out his name, there is a strong chance that the child could be falling in the Autism Spectrum.
Bottom-line if you suspect that your child has autism; please take him to the right place for diagnosis as fast as possible. And if your fears are confirmed, Start Behavior and Homeopathic Intervention as fast as possible .
Understand what has happened to your Child.
If you can leave the medical diagnosis aside, Take a brief pause and understand what has happened to your Child ( it will help you in his recovery ). It seems that the child has slipped into his own world . He is less connected to the world around him . His mind is getting trained to be in his own world . He is self – stimulating because of that . Prevent that . This is stopping him from learning new things
Autism Confirmed -Time to go all guns blazing
Its now or never, you cant afford delay in this matter. Put all your energy into pulling your child out of the world that he has slipped into. ‘Concentrated effort’ is what is required , I have realized that parents who put in all their resources early ; whether it time or available manpower , stand a very good chance of seeing a recovery in their Child’s Autism problem.
Autistic Kids -A big No To Regular School
I was treating a child who was three and a half with moderate level of Autism and no speech . This child after 3-4 months of Homeopathic Treatment developed speech and could speak between 20-30 odd words although they were just single words . Then suddenly he started losing all what he had learnt. After good deal of discussion with the parents , I found out that the mother had put the child into a regular primary school . This School had no Special infrastructure for handling autism . I asked the mother to go and observe the child in the school . She reported back after 2- 3 days that the child was not being attended well in the class and was quite isolated . He was also self Stimulating in school. As per my advise , the parents withdrew him from school , he started gaining back his speech and was back on the road to recovery from autism . I would suggest that one should avoid school for kids with autism in early stage . Child should be only put in school , only if the school provides a dedicated shadow teacher . Regular schools should be completely avoided ; in fact they can work against your child’s improvement . The big reason for not putting your child into school is that it causes pure regression as the child gets good enough time to be into his own world, hence his learning is not happening and also his mind is getting trained be in his own self.
Autism Therapist vs You
It is you and not the therapist who is going to make the big difference . Taking the child to a therapist has a pitfall . Most parents get relaxed and they stop working with the child as much as they should, once they are seeking help from a therapist. They completely overlook the stimulation that should be given at home. Its my personal experience with thousands of cases that I am writing this feature and have seen this fallout of the therapy in quite a number of cases. I will try and make myself more clear – If you are taking your child for therapy make sure that when the child is back home ,he should not get any free time in the house to slip into his own world. This slipping into his own self is the biggest impediment to his recovery . Most of our learning occurs from what we learn passively. When a child with autism slips into his self , his passive learning is not taking place hence he is not learning. Taking the child to the best therapist or the best therapy centre makes the parents believe that they are doing their bit and the child will automatically or over a period of time recover from autism because of the therapy he is receiving; where as what is actually happening is that the all the good work that therapist is doing , is getting anti doted by the hours of isolated state that the child slips into when he is back home. Once back home , keep up with the stimulation . Play , talk , dance …do all kind of activities . Keep him engaged in a loop with you and the regular world around him
Parents are the best Therapist for Autistic kids
There is no harm in engaging a therapist or taking your child to the Autism therapy centre as long as you are spending a lot of time with the child. I have always suggested parents to take more pro-active role in the execution of therapies. I have seen that children recover from autism more when their parents are actively involved in giving therapy to the child at home . Autism therapies are no rocket science ; one can easily learn them . There is a lot of information and videos available on the net . Try Searching You Tube for videos and you will find thousands of them. You are the best Therapist For him.
The Big Mantra in Autism Recovery Therapy – Stimulate & Simulate & Stimulate
As I already said autism therapy is no rocket science , the basic fundamental behind every therapy is to constantly engage with the child ; Never leave him alone .Don’t let him slip into his own world . This is what is most damaging for the child with autism. His slipping into his own self is keeping him away from learning new things hence he is not speaking and doing things. Constantly stimulate the child ; talk , play , dance . Engage with him in every moment . Do not leave him alone. You have to train his mind to be out of the Inward State . The whole exercise aims at training the mind to be constantly connected with outer world so that he can passively learn things.
Tv , iPad , iPhone etc Make your Child’s Autism Recovery Difficult
I have already written about dangers of television watching in my previous post and its suspected linkage to Autism . Please keep them away from gadgets . He is not learning anything from it ; most of the times they are a big fixation for them and are making things worse . I have seen miraculous results in hundreds of cases where the kids were pulled away from gadgets . These gadgets promote their self stimulatory Behaviour.
What Working mothers with Autistic Kids should do for recovery ?
Its now or never . If you are not the only bread-earner in the family , leave your job and be with your child for an year( if you have caught him early) . Early intervention with Right Homeopathic treatment can really pull your child out of Autism Spectrum . Prioritise your child’s Recovery . Unfortunately you might not get this opportunity to revert back his state after an year . Another advise that I have always given to mothers and has really helped many kids is that the mothers should match their Sleep Rhythm with that off the child . It really helps them to focus more on the child and gives more ‘High energy Time’ for the mothers to engage with the child .It is about matching your peak energy hours with that of the child .
I have often observed this ,that once the Parents come to know about their child’s autism issue , working mothers tend to do their office work from home ; this again can be a misleading situation . In my experience noting major is achieved by this in most of the cases.The child will still be getting a lot of time to be into his own world. For what I have said in the last few lines might differ from case to case , so use your own discretion but be aware of what I say – ‘working from home might not carry the full impetus that is needed to bring your child out of autism’
Get More People In the House
Are nuclear families to be blamed for an increase in the incidence of autism , no one really knows the real answer ; but certainly human interaction has a lot to do with the child’s recovery in autism . Its my personal opinion that if there more people available in the house for kids to interact with their chances of recovery from autism are high – Remember it is beneficial only if those people spend time by playing and interacting with the child .
Train your Autistic Kids mind for Passive learning
A lot of learning happens passively in kids ; they learn a lot from what is going on around them . Kids with autism tend to slip into their own world , thus their passive learning is not happening . Constant stimulation trains their mind to be out of their state and they start learning things passively . So My advise is to give constant stimulation and avoid what is the conventional practise nowadays of taking the child to the therapist for an hour or two in the morning and then letting him be in their own world throughout the day.
Do Not Focus only on Speech with your Autistic Child
Speech is not a stand-alone feature of brain , it results from the cumulative development of various faculties of brain . Many parents mainly focus on making their kids speak a single word like Mama, papa or dada. I opine that parents should not do this and should focus on the overall stimulation of the child . Spontaneous speech is what we really look for in kids who start recovering from autism . A child having Spontaneous speech refers to a situation where the child can speak more than what he has been forced to learn. He is able to pickup words from his environment and speak on his own .
Start Homeopathy for Autism -.
The sad part in my years of hard work with autism , is that most of the parents do not provide any kind of testimonial once their kids have recovered from autism . Although they are not obliged to do so , yet it is something that I feel that they owe it back to the society . It is very frustrating and humiliating when you are refused a testimonial . I have explained the parents that it is not for me that they should do this but for those thousands of parents who are hopeless about their kids recovery from autism. Most of my request go in vain. Yet ,Some brave ones have given video testimonials of recovery which are available on my you tube channel. Homeopathic medicines have a big role to play in the field of Autism . Data analysis from my Thesis ( My Masters in Homeopathy has been in the Autism and the research on The role of homeopathic medicines in the field of Autism) has clearly indicated strong efficacy of certain homeopathic medicines in Treating autism spectrum disorders. There are plenty of features in this website that I have written on how homeopathy can be helpful in treating autism. Try the search facility in the site and read them.Briefly I will explain the modalities – Autism Recovery with homeopathy has certain factors attached to it. Age of the child , Hyperactivity and last the verbal development has a lot to do with the overall outcome in the case .Homeopathy can in some kids ,can be a big boon ( I am clearly stating that only some kids recover dramatically with homeopathy… not all ) .
Dear Dr Sharma,
My son is now 18 years old and attends a specialist ABA school. We caught him early but despite trying multiple ABA programmes did not find much success. We have also tried a number of medical interventions, both allopathic and homeopathic, although the homeopathic was not truly homeopathic in the pure sense. I would be most grateful if we might converse on the possibility for improvement from here.
Rgds,
Dr Sunil Gandhi
Hello Dr
My son is 4 years his always mumbling ,and playing on his own. He can say a few words like mummy, wow etc.I’m very worried about him being late with his speech.his in is own world playing and talking to himself. I tried reading and talking to him but he still doing the same behaviour. Please what should I do?
Worried mother
Dear Dr. my grand son of 22 months not responding to his name calling him out by anybody. Always very fond of looking running – fans and rotating wheels and remains busy within his own world. Not indicating his needs, not pointing out to any things of his choice rather running towards those items such as electric switch, fan rotating switch. Always remains hyper, except when TV is on or mobile is on he wants to push or put on the buttons on them. I request you Sir, if you guide us for treatment. His mother and father are both doing job in Pune and gave little time to their child for last 12 months. I shall remain obliged for you kind suggestions to save its life.
sir i have 3.3 year old daughter she is dignosis as autism at 3 years speek all the needs exam for food toilet water song etc follow 80% direction good eye contact ,full enjoyment with us play with us, less play with toys less play with same year kid no tanturm some times hand flapping(rare about 2-3 times in a day when she was happy) spining in circle about 4-5 times in a days, able to catch the big ball, play with bat n ball play with car in right manner but play span is less around 1 to 3 minutes only, ear close by hand some sound (pressure cooker sound and mixer sound), repetative behavior most to listen particuler 3-4 song as which she is want and repetative demand to climb in window, sometimes uses the song rythem in any word by herself,smell interested means want to smell bad smell, good memory learn a to z meaning, 1 to 20 counting , k kh to ghh, a aa e ang ahh, sunday to saturday, jan to dec,3 to 4 poems, not able to talk in full sentence, exam when his mother washing clothes then she is question his momm mummy kapre kapre, mummy burten saaf ,demand eat as per need exam mummy biscuit, kheer milk, give firstly thank u to fulfill his need, say sorry whem his mother goes angry on his wrong doing plz suggest me doctor she has asd and some another problem and his treatment option in homeopethy plz reply me on my mail id thanking u sir
Dr I thank god I found you please help me I m from Uganda I live in ottawa ont canada my boys father is from Nigeria joshua was diagnosed as severely autistic n would never recover was verbal till 18months very joyful n than he was stolen from me living in fear not understanding autism at the time afraid of drugging him up I kept him with me is there still hope getting older stronger fits. Get tiring what homeo treatment u remmcond at this stage his father can’t rest with house not having peace wants to medicate him as a mother from indian background I m ismaili my belief of medicating anyone scary please help me I have already lost my child he has never been in any therapy or school without heavy meds they won’t jousha we call him jaja can not sit for long as any kid his age makes more challanging with his condition I can’t go shopping or any place without friends help fear when I come back he might have had another tantrum help me I know you can my last hope. Thanks sabrina in ottawa
I am a kindergarden teacher , my child 8 years old need help for his school homeworking. he will run away if he is alone alway not patient with things that he was doing.Cannot sit in one place,no interesting to read and write .What can i do with him?
kindly help me for curing my child from autism
hi sir my daughter is 24 months old I used to show her TV just to feed her for the past one years and now she is talking only two to three words only and my peditrians said she had ASD after hearing dis I quit of TV totally will did thing alone recover my baby or should I need to do any other therapy pls suggest me my total family is depressed….
Hi My son is 3.5 years old with a diagnosis of asd he is in a asd pre school and have a tutor for 2 hours a week , can you please offer me advice on how homeopathy can help thanks .
Hello dr sharma my child is 4 years old n he started speak at 3 now he is going to school n not able to recognize numbers n alphabets is this autism. Plz help waiting for ur reply.
Hello sir
My son is 2.5 yr old he speak single words if I consider to words then it’d like bless u,see u.
He recognise colors ,shapes and even animal with there sounds
But my problem is that I just started sending him to schol from last week and his teacher is complaining that he does not listen to them and water he wants and if the call his name he don’t respond them and never sit with them n if they try it forcefully then he cries.
She says when they recite rhymes then he contribute otherwise no
Waiting for ur reply
Thank u
Dear Dr. Sharma. My daughter is 6 years old now.I can’t really say if her case can be classified as autism. IUGR was queried at her birth. She weighed 2.2 kg at birth. She was always irritated with loud sound, like the sound of blender. She would almost freeze if she was thrown up to be caught. All these stopped when she was 2. Her speech didn’t come until she was 3 years old. She is talking very well now. The challenges I’m having now is that (1)she is hyperactive and (2)she’s not doing well in school, (though she has crossed eyes from birth) and she is presently seeing a paediatric ophthalmologist. What can be done concerning these challenges? Thank you.
Respected Sir,
My name is Pradipta Routh. I am really facing lots of problem for my only child. last six months he is not speaking. its suddenly stopped by him. Earlier he was speaked but at this moment he is not speaking. he is taking special education & speach teraphy from reputed hospital but unfortunatly improvement not shown. my contact no is 09830258880. requesting you to help me to recover from this pathetic situation.
Hello Doctor, I have read the cases about autism. One of my niece has the same problem since her childhood at the age of 3years. Now she is 20years old. She was taken to many neuro clinics but proper treatment was not provided. So is there any chance for her recovery if we restart the treatment again ? I am hoping that homeopathic treatment would definitely work for her recovery and your suggestion would be definitely helpful for us. Thank you.
My son is 5 years old he is Autism shouting and when he don’t gets his required thing e.g. milk within one minute he use to beat his forehead on ground which makes his forehead reddish and running and throwing things pulls hairsnof family member
Mera bachha 2y 7months ka h na bol pata h na isara kar pata h apne duniya me adktir rahta h latreen toilet paint me karte h plz help me
I have 06 years old son name adit. He is suffering from Autism Specturm Disorder. He use few words in communication. He can’t reply against any question. He is always engaged in disturbing works like contionous shouting. He is never follow orders. Pls help me
My 2.4 year old son does not speak. i am so worried. Please give us right and best advice.
My 3 and half year old son does not speak. His iq level is 68 i am so worried. Please give us right and best advice.
Dear Dr. Sharma ,
My 5 year old son does not speak. I am so worried about him. Please give us right and best advice
My son Dhrov is 7.5 years old and is on autistic spectrum he can talk but I am facing difficulties in language he is not able to communicate with us and thus his anger and frustration levels are going up. He is undergoing multiple therapies and going to school also but he is not on any special diet or medicine.
We stay in Delhi I want to try homeopathy but my problem is it is difficult for me to take him to doctor at regular intervals due to his busy schedule with school and therapies can you please help.