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What is anger?
Anger is a strong emotional state of being upset or frustrated which makes a person hurt someone for doing something unkind to them. The causes of anger are multifactorial. Abusive past, suppressed emotions, stress, living in an environment where people get angry often, poor self-esteem, low tolerance levels are a few factors that make a person prone to getting angry easily. Genes, too, play a significant role in how a person reacts to a situation and the intensity with which he/she reacts to a situation. Anger is a natural emotion and is safe as long as it is mild, expressed appropriately and resolves quickly. It is when anger swings to extremes, is aroused by the most trivial issues, leads to disturbed relationships or is difficult to cope with that it becomes a condition that needs treating.
What are the different types of anger?
Anger has various types. Major among these are as follows:
- Verbal anger – In this type of anger, the person expresses anger in words.
- Passive anger – People with this type of anger are never direct about expressing their anger. Instead, they use tools such as sarcasm (sharp, bitter remarks) to show their feelings.
- Self-inflicted anger – People prone to this type of anger tend to harm or punish themselves for some wrong they believe they have done. Such persons may start to eat too much or too little or show self-destructive behavior.
- Sudden anger – Such persons lose their temper quickly, but get out of the angry frame of mind just as fast.
- Overwhelmed anger – This type of anger appears when a person is unable to cope with the circumstances or situations taking place around them anymore. This type of anger is mostly expressed by shouting.
- Chronic anger – Chronic anger is prolonged anger and is often linked with depression.
What are the long-term effects of anger?
Getting angry makes a person prone to various health issues, both on the mental and physical plane. The physical complaints include high blood pressure, digestion problems, headaches and migraines. The mental complaints include depression, insomnia and anxiety issues.
Homeopathy can help control anger
There is great scope in Homeopathy for treating anger issues. Homeopathic medicines work on a dynamic plane, going to the deeper levels of the brain to modify angry temperaments. They help balance the mood and negative thoughts that lead to anger. Homeopathic medicines used for treating anger are natural, safe and are not habit-forming. The appropriate medicine is selected after a detailed study of the case history and symptoms. Special emphasis is placed on the childhood history of the person to trace the root cause of the anger. Some top rated Homeopathic medicines used for treating anger issues are Nux Vomica, Chamomilla, Staphysagria, Aurum Met and Tarentula Hispanica.
Homeopathic Medicines for Anger
Nux Vomica – One of the best Homeopathic medicines for anger over trivial things
Nux Vomica is one of the top grade Homeopathic medicines for anger control and management. It is the best choice of Homeopathic medicine for persons who get offended easily and will become angry over non-issues. They are averse to conversation and could be offended by the most harmless words. They turn violent and abusive during anger episodes. Other features of their constitution include a strong will, fault finding nature, ambition and workaholism. Nux Vomica is also recommended for persons who develop an angry disposition after loss in business.
Staphysagria – Top rated among Homeopathic medicines for suppressed anger with violent outbursts
Staphysagria is one of the most wonderful Homeopathic medicines for anger, especially where the person has long suppressed anger and is now given to violent outbursts. There are periods of suppression, followed by periods of angry outbursts in persons who need Homeopathic medicine Staphysagria. Such persons may throw or break things during their anger outbursts. Some history of mental/physical abuse, humiliation can usually be traced to persons who need Staphysagria.
Aurum Met – Most effective among Homeopathic medicines for anger when contradicted
Aurum Met is another excellent Homeopathic prescription for anger control and management. The persons who will benefit most from this medicine are the ones who get angry over the slightest contradiction. Such persons are sensitive to contradiction which leads to a sudden, explosive outburst from them. In addition to this, such persons may be melancholic in nature, suffer lack of self-worth and a very low self-esteem. Hopelessness and self reproaching behavior is also observed. Aurum Met is also the best among Homeopathic medicines for anger linked with chronic depression. Suicidal thoughts may prevail in persons in whom Aurum Met will show best recovery.
Tarentula Hispanica – Top grade among Homeopathic medicines for anger when attended with destructiveness
In cases where anger is attended with destructive behaviour, Tarentula Hispanica is one of the most wonderful Homeopathic medicines for anger control and management. There is a tendency to throw things when angry. Such persons tend to strike themselves or others in anger. Impatience, obstinacy and high levels of irritability are other traits to look out for in persons for whom Tarentula Hispanica will be the most suitable choice among Homeopathic medicines for anger. Such people may be impulse, lack emotional control and be excessively restless as well.
Chamomilla – One of the most wonderful Homeopathic medicines for anger in children
Chamomilla is one of the most highly rated Homeopathic medicines for anger when it is seen in children. The child who needs Chamomilla is very irritable and loses temper easily. The child may also be obstinate, fretful and restless. The children, in such cases, want many things at the same time and get cross and angry if their demands are not met. They get snappish when angry and will not talk in a civil manner.
My friend’s husband has a great deal of suspicion rgarding her relationship with her ex class fellow in whom she was interested but their relationship did not turn out to marriage. Before marriage she shared all this with her husband and gave him her facebook password. He looked into all her messages and found some messages of the class mate. From that day he has become suspicious of his wife who is really true and caring to him. Further he shows her anger and hatred sometimes by verbal abuse and sometimes by keeping bitter silence and leaving to talk to her for weeks. The latter has more common now but he says bitter sentences and does not even care of someone else’s presence. There are repeated episodes. He also shows apology and regret when resumes from bouts of anger. He refuses to take any medicine regarding this issue and said ‘I will not take any medicine’. Can she give medicine by some hidden means so that her married life could get normal?Please advise some medicine and its way to give indirectly
Dear sir
My poti aged 2and half year is extremely violent without any causes. She shouts and use nails to damage another child or person.
Plz advise me which medicine is suitable for this girl.
THANKS
My father(age 65) got angry fast and shouting louldy and also out angryness frame within hour. he has negative thought and doubt for others for normal matters.whole night he has dreaming on whole day thinking and in eraly morning he will be shouting on any one in home.
Please give guidence about medicine
My husband id suffering from depression for past three years he is scolding each of my relatives using foul language he is always angry and becomes aggressive over petty issues he does not sleep at night till four o clock
Hi sir !
My mom is angry at the litil bit things very hard, some time cryes and thinks saidly moments and some times gets fall things,and after day she behave very politly with ever.
So please choose for her homio. medicin.
i had a lot of problems in my college and in my family…i can,t able to control my stress so i shot at any one to cast my feelings….because i dont want to cry before anyone,.,, it seems iam losing them plss help me out
Sir…my wife got angry very fast..anf always break household things like laptop..mobile..mobile chargers. She is very jealous of me..because everybody praise me in front of her..she has got her hair 95% grey.she do such things which makes me also angry.
Hi sir I’m worried ab my son.he is 17 he was very well behaved ND obedient before some years but from last year he suddenly changed started misbehaving ND disobedience.suddenly became very violent in small things . threw things in home ND destroyed even shout ND try to harm himself aswell others . After some time he became very normal as nothing happened.total happiness of my family get messed.can u plz help me
I feel that I have symptoms of sudden anger . I become angry quickly and then calm cool in few seconds or in a minute. Please suggest medicine to get rid of this shortag temper.
I m facing all the long term effects of anger as written above. I have lost all my health beauty I want to end my life . The reason is my husband who has ni sense of his basic behaviour. Copying him my son n daughter I n law are becoming like him all the three insults me use me n throw me till their next service as a result now Since 2015 I.m with my daughter I want to shift in Old age home.
Dear Dr. i am Mrs lily rajput.. i m very short tempered and get angry within a fraction of seconds but due to this my relations are getting spoilt.. i request u to please suggest me medicine to control my anger so that i can become a good listener rather than being a listener
Thanking You
Lily Rajput
Hello Doctor.
My son gets very much angry and abusive. All same things what you have written in nux vomica medicine. From mid night till evening he has negative thought for others. And afterwards he feels fresh and said what happened to him. But again next day he starts same and abuse people. He abuses people for petty things which was done 2,3 years back.He has a good job but he is not satisfied with it because this job is not according to his qualification. He is not ready to take medicine. Many times he had met homeopathy and allopathy doctors when he is in good mood. But doesn”t take medicine. Please suggest some homeopathy medicine and doze. Please suggest medicine that skip his negative thoughts. Kindly mail medicine and suggestions on the following mail.
Anita Thakur
My wife, aged 35 years, gets angry on trivial matters. We got married in 2000. After one year of our marriage she came to know that I have seen with my old girl friend once at a university. After then she become violent and hospitalised. This condition gradually cleared and she become ok. For the past 15 years there was no problem. But the last one year she talks about that incident and becomes angry and even shows the sign of fits. Often shouts and questions me again and again and cries out. The same thing asks again and again and becomes totally exhausted. She shouts and abuses our children if they came to us. She always wanted me, loves me very much. But whenever we got some free time together instead of enjoying she talks negatively and begins to cry and abuses me.
Please advice me if there any suitable medcine for this problem.
Hi Dr Sharma
My son is 8 years old and very loving and caring, but his anger issues are having an impact at home and at school, when he is angry he can hit out and he gets angry over the smallest of things even when his classmates get too noisy or his little brother annoys him (which is quite often as he is 3 years old). I have the headmaster on the phone about 3 times a week. We are all working together, but it is really getting him down and upsetting him.
Kind Regards
Louise
Dr. Sharma,
I have become very passively angry. I have suppressed anger and grief from an extremely abusive/traumatic childhood. And it doesnt get released due to not one family member acknowledging or wanting to talk to me about it. I am dead inside. What homeopathic treatment do you recommend?
staphisagria would be a good start?
Hi,
My son who is now 21 years is often getting angry by remembering past issues where I had reprimanded him of his wrong doings. Becomes violent, destroys things, getting physical at me and my wife.
Also for past 4-5 months keeps himself in his room, only comes out of his room when feels hungry, does not talks to us, avoids family get together, does not attend his class, moves around only with a select friends and indulges in intoxication by taking alcohol & marijuana. Demands money, gets violent if it is delayed by even 10 minutes.
Does not cooperates to visit Doctor, once went to see the doctor but throws away the medicine.
Can you recommend any safe homeopathic medicine without steroids and side effects to be given to him without his knowledge, means mixing the medicine in his food ?
Please advise.
Regards.
Subhrakanta
Hi sir,
My father, will get angry for small small matter
He can’t control is angry and he will shout loudly,
His age is almost 58. If he gets angry he will throw
Particular item in his hand which was it he doesn’t
Seen. And he not listen our word in home. So please
Suggest any medicine sir…..
My sis in law is very moody.and her anger is disturbing my brother s marital life.plz suggest some medicine.
My son has the largest heart in the world and the largest temper. Outbursts, school has gotten crazy, gets angry very easy and shows definite signs of anxiety. He has a hard time focusing.He is 13 and I refuse to put him on chemical medication.
Doctor, my son is 21 yrs old autistic non verbal . lately, he’s showing anger restlessness disobedience showing no interest in studies etc. Hitting over slight dissent . Banging doors , always having paper scroll in his hand pacing up n down whole day.
Any meds for above symptoms . Specially for anger restlessness disobedience n help him get speech too.please help. Im v. V helpless. Regards
Im 41 years old, I have all the above mentioned anger, which medicine is best for me. I’ve been suffering from agresive nature since my childhood.
I have all the above traits of anger… Which medicine should I take… Please help me out