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ADHD Homeopathic remedies | Six Ways To Manage Abusiveness In Kids

Is your child arguing back frequently or showing signs of annoying behavior like screaming “no” to all your requests and getting verbally abusive on a daily basis?

These are signs of severe behavioral problems and discipline challenges that children affected by ADHD throw up. While it is normal for most children to answer back or ignore parents’ requests sometimes, when such conduct becomes chronic it is a manifestation of ADHD, often coupled with ODD (oppositional defiant disorder). As many as 40 per cent of the children afflicted by ADHD generally also suffer from ODD, which is characterized by chronic abusive or obnoxious behavior, a tendency to argue or annoy frequently etc.

The bad news is that this behavior can spill into adulthood, leading to severe personal and professional problems that can even have social ramifications when they result in reckless driving, alcoholism, gambling and such ills.

The good news is that with the help of behavior therapy even the most obnoxious and annoying child can be managed. Here are some simple steps and homeopathic medicines for adhd to manage aggressive and abusive behavior in ADHD children.

Positive action works better than negative strategy

Parents need to make use of reward rather than punishment to correct ADHD behavior. Children respond better to positive incentives than to negative ones. For instance, if a child has the annoying habit of turning on the television full blast despite requests to lower the volume, tell him that he will earn 10 minutes extra of viewing his favorite program if keeps the sound low.

Reinforce good behavior with reward.

If a child sits still through class or his parent-teacher meeting, praise him publicly or reward his good conduct.

 Don’t be drawn into arguments

Psychologists say that aggressive ADHD kids not only like arguing or answering back but also enjoy drawing parents, teachers or peers into the arguing mode. They like it when they are in the center of the argument. The moment the parents or teachers get into an argument with them, they land on their turf. The abusive child keeps tossing out the verbal bait and the parent keeps falling into the trap.So, stop rising to the bait and arguing with the chronically annoying child who loves to argue about anything and everything.

Try time out strategy

The use of “time-out,” which entails isolating the child immediately for a short period of time, is considered a very effective strategy for dealing with aggressive behavior as it gives both the parent and the child time to cool down.Psychologists usually advise parents to apply 1 minute of timeout for each year of age, which mean 4 minutes for a four year old.  The general norm suggested by psychologists is applying the 30% rule to kids with ADHD and learning disabilities.Thus, an abusive or aggressive child should immediately be removed from a situation in which he is annoying or endangering others. Try to make the child look upon time out as a way of cooling off rather than as a form of isolation from others.

Channelize physical aggression into verbal outlet

While mildly aggressive acts should be allowed in a child so as to enable him to let off some steam, when the behavior becomes abusive, physically aggressive or intentional, the best way is to channelize the physical aggression into a verbal outlet. This could mean sometimes allowing the ADHD child to use words that may not be acceptable in normal kids.

 Anticipating aggression

Many a time a parent can anticipate situations when a child with ADHD is likely to get aggressive or abusive. Quite frequently, an ADHD simply child explodes in public without any provocation. If such a flare-up happens in public, it is advisable for the parent to remove themselves from the situation by making an exit.

Redirect energy into motor skill

If a child’s verbal aggression develops into intentionally abusive and socially embarrassing conduct, the parents need to channelize his aggression into positive physical activity and motor skills like competitive one-on-one sports, energy-consuming music or dancing, competitive video gaming and such activity .With patience and understanding, parents and other care givers can correct ADHD-related aggressiveness in children through such behavioral therapy.

Top Homeopathic medicines for Abusiveness in kIds With ADHD 

Chamomilla :- Homoeopathic medicine chamomilla is one of the best indicated remedies in cases of extreme abusiveness in children. The child may be extremely restless and may cry continuously. Chamomilla may be prescribed when the child keeps demanding one thing after the other and refuses when given. There may be temper tantrum on every little thing. The child cannot tolerate if anyone tries to speak to him. The child may be extremely abusive and complaining. The child cannot take no for an answer and may keep moaning continuously because he is being refused things that he demands.  Chamomilla may be given in children who get extremely abusive and violent when anyone interrupts him.

Cina :- Homoeopathic medicine cina is one very well indicated remedy in children who are abusiveness. The child may be very cross and irritable and hates when touched. Cina may be prescribed in children who don’t want to be carried, talked to or touched. They may turn away from strangers. The child bores his face in his mother’s lap and cries incessantly. Here again, the child desires many things but rejects everything when offered. Cina may be prescribed in children who suffer from worm infestations.

Antimony Crud  :- Homoeopathic medicine antim crud is also a very well indicated medicine in children who are unusually abusive. The child is excessively irritable and crossed. Any attempt to please the child fails. Nothing seems to satisfy the child. There is much brooding and the child doesn’t want to speak. The child gets angry when someone looks at him. Antim crud may be prescribed in children who are extremely short tempered without any relevant cause.

Veartrum Album :- Homoeopathic medicine veratrum alb is an indicated remedy in children who throw temper tantrums. There may be extreme mood swings and crankiness may alternate with a submissive behavior. The child may scream and curse when angry. Veratrum alb may be prescribed in children who get physically violent when angry. There may be an unusual tendency to tear or cut things during bouts of anger.  The child may sit in an awkward position and become totally incommunicable.

Hyoscyamus :- Homoeopathic medicine hyoscyamus is a very well indicated remedy in abusiveness in children. The child may be very quarrelsome and abusive. He may hurl verbal abuses at everyone around him. There may be constant grumbling and muttering due to irritation. The child may be extremely impatient and talkative. Hyocyamus may be prescribed when the child make fun of other children and is extremely insulting. There may be an unusual tendency to find fault. There is much dejection and despair. The child may be insensitive to others feelings.

Natrum Mur:- Homoeopathic medicine natrum mur may be prescribed in cases of abusive children who are extremely weepy and cross. They refuse to be consoled and weep more on consolation. The child is generally well behaved and may be suppressd for a long time. Due to prolonged suppression, there may piling up of the emotions. Suddenly, the child just explodes with angry bouts.  The child prefers to be left alone to cry. There is much awkwardness and hasty behavior. Natrum  mur may  be prescribed when the child gets irritated with trifle things.

 

 

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Comments

  1. Tanvi dharia says:

    Hello my daughter is 5 years old and has very aggressive behaviour and stubborn moods.. Catches things very fast and she is very smart in studies and all other activities..but she is not taking
    part in any physical games like karate, P. T, Yoga.. She likes spicy food ,chocolates and sweets.. From last 1 year she has got one habbit like sitting so erect and become very hard with her legs.. Des things she do for 5 to 10 mins den she is back with normal situations.
    But from past 3 for 4 months she gets very angry specially on mothers and Nani… And giving back answer with bad words… When she is angry she is not knowing what she is doing and telling…
    But after sometimes when she clam down she realized that I have done something wrong and start saying sorry to us… She is not allowing her mother to go washroom also… She want her mother with her whole time… Not allowing to go go job also… Sometimes she is not controlled by us…
    In such situations plz give some suggestions why should we…

  2. Tridib Manna says:

    My son is 13 yrs, addicted in mobile games Free fire. He is restless, becomes angry when any short of thing goes against him. He does not listen anybody’s advice, what comes in his mind he wants to do it, if demands are not fulfilled try to commit suicide or says negative, sometimes he promised something to do good but does not keep his word. He is under psychiatry doctor for 5 months. Consuming Arpizole 10 and Feliz S 15.
    But anger, demands, violence restlessness increasing. Kindly advice

  3. Bhabita Debnath says:

    I am from India.my child boy is 7 yearsold.he is very naughty,irritating,and rest less.his sleeping hour 10pm to 8am.plz help how can change his misbehavior

  4. Sandeep chadha says:

    Hello my child is 7 years old and has very aggressive behaviour and tempramental moods. He abuses us a as parents. Catches things very fast but we only see negative side of his acts. He also does not ge in peer group and is away from physical games. He only likes to play games on tab. He is physically lean and eats relarively less and likes spicy food and chocolates. Also while sleeping on occasions he aggresaively hits the bed and mumurs aggressive words which we do not understand. Also hits children in school and we get regular complaints. He still wets the bed. Is very jealous of others.

  5. Dr my son is 9yrs old .he is very intelligent but can’t focus in anything like study, music, drawing etc.he is hyper active child

  6. DEEPAK GUPTA says:

    Hello sir, my son is 1.7 years old. He is very stubborn/ziddi and even refuse to take food due to this. We have tried loving him, consoling him and even sometime angry. Buy he never gives up. If you forcefully try to make him eat, he will start crying and vomit out everything. He won’t eat although we can feel his stomach is empty by touching.

  7. Dear Dr. Sharma
    My 9 year old granddaughter has very severe problems of being physically and verbally abusive in particular with her mother.
    My mobile number is 98111 11071 .
    I live in Delhi.
    I need urgent help.
    Please advise and help .
    Thanks and regards
    Mahindro

  8. Hello Sir, My son is in his teenage. He cannot control himself. He is moody, sometimes abusive also.
    Inspite of making him understand about good and bad habits, he will follow what he is following. I mean he will not change to good. There r behaviouraial and discipine problems. Not to get up in the morning
    has to give reminders from outside when he is having bath. Does not clean his body properly. He will not help in our regular house hold work. His first answer is always “NO” I don’t understand how to tackle him.
    pl. guide

  9. ashish dwivedi says:

    sir my son is 5year old and he is sufferfrom adiction of spliting (thukne ke adat) and irritating also please advice me homeopathy medicing for this problem

  10. D. S. Patial says:

    R/Sir
    Namaskar
    Sir My daughter is 8 years old. her birth weight was 1.45kg. but she is weak till now and get irritated on small things . please suggest .

  11. vandana bharti says:

    Dear Doctor Sharma

    Greetings of the day.

    I am Vandana bharti from bhubaneswar,orissa.I have one son of age 6.5 years old.He is very agrressive in nature,talking always abusive words,always says NO to any statement and very very rigid.He was not like that actually.In 2-3 years these type of changes is going on.One more thing always complaning stomachache,and not interested to take any type of food.He very much likes fruits but in the morning he will be very rigid to take food.Please suggest medicines.Waiting for your reply.

    Regards,
    Vandana bharti
    contact no. 9438760035

  12. Mohammed Feroz says:

    dear Sir

    my son age is 11 years and is ADHD patient. He is undergoing homeopathic treatment.
    He is recovering slowly. Main problem is that he is more talkative. Repeats the same word continuously and try to tease bringing his face close to any one.
    Any medicine or suggestions from your side.

    regards,

    Feroz

  13. ANURADHA AGARWAL says:

    Dear Dr,

    My son is turning 5 in few days. Since past 3 months or so, he cant sit at one place. He keeps on walking even during food. Instead of floor, he walks on couch then to table then to another couch like that.

    He dont want to eat food and is super skinny. He grinds teeth too. Until his demand gets fulfilled, he keeps on asking abt it continuously which irritates me like hell.

    He eats paper everytime and enjoys throwing things like clothes toys or anything on the floor to keep the house as dirty as he could. Like if the blanket is kept folded, he would go n take it with him and leave it on the floor. He would take the charger out of the slot and drop it, everything should b on the floor. He eats and tears paper and that also is left everywhere on the floor.

    Please help!!!

  14. Hello Dr,
    My Child is 3.2 yrs old and she still doesn’t speak words in continuation. The understanding is little at lower side. She doesn’t respond to asked actions like getting something asked for or take us to place from where she wants to take something.
    With some therapy she has improved over 6 months but still understanding is less. She is fond of the sucking.
    Pls advice if we need to go for some homeopathic medicine

  15. subrato sahana says:

    Dear Doctor
    My 2.5 year daughter is often (4-5 times in a day, 2-3 days a week) crying, shouting loudly, throwing things, unmanageable etc from last 2 months
    She still not started speaking completely, very shy, very quiet in her PG school, very less active in school activities. She understands mother tongue properly but hardly speaks few words.
    She eats nicely & drinks plenty water. Her weight & height development is also proper.
    She doesn’t take our instructions at all even after listening it completely

    Kindly prescribe some homeopathy medicine for her aggressive behavior & fast learning

  16. Inderpreet Kaur says:

    My child is very good st times and understand what i explain him but at times he just cries for a little thing dont listen to me what i will say he will gnore and will not pay attention at rimes and sometimes he himself bevones so gud that he dnt cry listens to me he irritates me at times for studying or watching tv when i will say no he will not agree and at times he goes to badi mama’s room and does not come to me to study and their he pkays with a little kid what shoul i do how should i treat him.

  17. C. Correia says:

    My two year old grandson keeps biting suddenly provoked or unprovoked …this habit was there from the time he was an infant. He has all his teeth now. We have dewormed him Homeopathy as well Allopathic. After the second born he has started crying and throwing tantrums continues to bite. He is very well behaved when parents not there except for this sometimes unexpected biting. Secondly he puts his fingers in the mouth throughout the day and salivates .

  18. Dear Dr Sharma, Our 11 year old girl was born premature with a Moya Moya condition.She had operations in getting more bloodflow into the brain which helped immensely with the frequency of strokes.
    She is intelligent yet cannot control her emotional outbursts and is in a special school for her dysfunctional condition.She is extremely outgoing and has no fear or inhibitions in talking to anyone.
    Can you suggest homeopathic support please.
    Thanks

  19. Hi dr Sharma
    My child has just been diagnosed with autism age 2yrs8months.
    He doesn’t like to be told no it’s his way other wise he hits himself on the ground and he doesn’t speak yet.
    Can you please help me and he doesn’t sleep throughout the whole night

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